The prize possession of a woman’s soul is her feelings. She defines a man that knows her through knowing how she feels. A complete hallmark of things that trigger her emotions from happiness to sadness. The key to a man’s soul is his purpose, drive, mission, accomplishment.

So often in relationships, a woman feels like his partner does not listen to her, does not take care about how she feels even more disheartening when the very same woman has stripped herself emotionally naked to her man.

At that very same moment, she expects her man to understand how she feels because make no mistake about it she is expressive. Most men have been socialized to discount feelings. Most men do not understand the weight of a woman’s feelings even moreover in arguments.

Men rationalize emotional issues instead of being empathetic in emotional issues. The male alters ego with its self-pride condescends women who are expressive when it comes to their feelings. The man’s alter ego dismantles the very fabric of a woman’s soul, which is her feelings

To most men, this highly prized possession of a woman (emotions) is treated with racketeering. The man extorts a woman’s ability to express herself through directly and indirectly labeling her as emotional. So, anything she says holds no weight because of emotive perception.

This has led several women to be stripped of their abilities to communicate in relationships. They are afraid any expression would be a wasteful exercise because her man will think she is just being emotional, paranoia, or talks too much.

Men need to realize when a woman bares her soul, discloses her feelings she should be listened. Men need to recognize that as significant instead of being dismissive.I am not saying men should suspend rationality or logic.

I am saying in a moment of emotions when a woman is expressing her most private thoughts and feelings through hurt and despair. The only role a man should play is an empathetic ear, a non-judgmental ear, an introspection comfort.

The minute you use logic, in some woman’s eyes it is the male alpha ego talking that is forever condescending. Lest we forget the prize possession of a woman’s soul is her feelings, her emotions for they are gold hence at that moment of emotions. She wants an empathetic ear.

However, within the same saliva, a woman needs to understand men tend to take words literally moreover in heated exchanges. For instance, once you shout at a guy as irresponsible his 1st deflection is to be defensive.

The term “irresponsible” injures his purpose, just like have said a man’s soul is rooted in his purpose. The man’s key purpose is to be responsible for his family, which is centered around his masculinity.

Now when you call him irresponsible or the infamous “you don’t care about my feelings; you don’t care about me” lines. At the back of his mind, he is preoccupied with the term “irresponsible or he doesn’t care” and he wonders what about all the time he cared, hv been responsible,

have done this and that. Now just one slip up, suddenly it overwrites everything he has done. Instead of calling him “irresponsible or he doesn’t care” you can rather call him a jerk, words that are undefinable to his purpose.

The undefinable the words are, the safer you preserve his purpose. A woman needs to protect and preserve a man’s purpose and speak to life that purpose. For instance “baby I know you care but today you hurt my feelings, its as if you did not care about them,

you did this and that and I thought this and that, felt this way and that way”. Now you are drawing your man closer into opening up, you acknowledge his good ways that he cares. You have removed what would have constituted in him launching a defensive approach.

Its all about emotional intelligence even in heated exchanges. A man should preserve and protect the vulnerability of a woman’s soul, her emotions. And a woman should protect and preserve her man’s purpose even in the heated exchange.

The choice of words and emotional availability gestures can strengthen a relationship. A man needs to preserve the momentum of comfortability in a woman to express her feelings freely. A woman needs to preserve the purpose of her man to express himself freely.