Aromantic Question thread follows! https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783009141174272
My name is Hope and I use fae/faer pronouns!
i am a system, so we might have a few different people answer the questions, only arospecs though đź’› https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783011347312641
As a whole, we identify as an AroAce Pan Lesbian!
most of us are asexual, we do have a couple straight guys (like Tristan), several bi and pansexuals (the faeries for example), and definitely some lesbians (like Alexis and Tris) https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783012257542146
Our absolute favorite is our gender flag: Sylvanae!
Favorite sexuality flag is the lesbian flag by apersnicketylemon from tumblr
favorite aspec flag is the aspec Autistic flag by @/autisticaspec
There’s so many good flags ahh https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783013285072896
overall, mostly platonic, queerplatonic, and aesthetic. lots of sensual too, but only if we really trust the person- then we are super affectionate!
Thistle and Iseult both love cuddling, Tris and Vaughn pine over beautiful people, and we’ve had a couple qprs as well https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783014157549568
We are! Several members of our system are in qprs with members of our partner system. It’s really nice :) We’ve also had other types of relationships and they’re definitely all different.
Another fun thing for us is seeing the relationships that form between systems members. https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783015835172864
I dont really understand how this works, but going off my gut feeling: we identify as lesbian, so I guess that?
It’s not really a label that we use though.
We do like the flag though, good strong color theory on that one. https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783016900624386
We are open to marriage, but given that both we and our partner system are disabled, this might not be a viable option. Additionally, zhe are dating and living with someone else right now too, so. It’s not a top priority for me by any means. https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783018318241799
I’m out to my friends both online and in person! It went well with them, but I always get nervous that people will think I don’t like them as much. Some of my previous partners were less ok with Ace or Aro though, which made me a bit sad.
+ https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783019396182016
I have not told my family, probably won’t for a few years.,
Also told my therapist, and doctors when necessary, never had an issue with them so far.
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