Aromantic Question thread follows! https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783009141174272
My name is Hope and I use fae/faer pronouns!
i am a system, so we might have a few different people answer the questions, only arospecs though
https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783011347312641
i am a system, so we might have a few different people answer the questions, only arospecs though

As a whole, we identify as an AroAce Pan Lesbian!
most of us are asexual, we do have a couple straight guys (like Tristan), several bi and pansexuals (the faeries for example), and definitely some lesbians (like Alexis and Tris) https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783012257542146
most of us are asexual, we do have a couple straight guys (like Tristan), several bi and pansexuals (the faeries for example), and definitely some lesbians (like Alexis and Tris) https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783012257542146
Our absolute favorite is our gender flag: Sylvanae!
Favorite sexuality flag is the lesbian flag by apersnicketylemon from tumblr
favorite aspec flag is the aspec Autistic flag by @/autisticaspec
There’s so many good flags ahh https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783013285072896
Favorite sexuality flag is the lesbian flag by apersnicketylemon from tumblr
favorite aspec flag is the aspec Autistic flag by @/autisticaspec
There’s so many good flags ahh https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783013285072896
overall, mostly platonic, queerplatonic, and aesthetic. lots of sensual too, but only if we really trust the person- then we are super affectionate!
Thistle and Iseult both love cuddling, Tris and Vaughn pine over beautiful people, and we’ve had a couple qprs as well https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783014157549568
Thistle and Iseult both love cuddling, Tris and Vaughn pine over beautiful people, and we’ve had a couple qprs as well https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783014157549568
We are! Several members of our system are in qprs with members of our partner system. It’s really nice :) We’ve also had other types of relationships and they’re definitely all different.
Another fun thing for us is seeing the relationships that form between systems members. https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783015835172864
Another fun thing for us is seeing the relationships that form between systems members. https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783015835172864
I dont really understand how this works, but going off my gut feeling: we identify as lesbian, so I guess that?
It’s not really a label that we use though.
We do like the flag though, good strong color theory on that one. https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783016900624386
It’s not really a label that we use though.
We do like the flag though, good strong color theory on that one. https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783016900624386
We are open to marriage, but given that both we and our partner system are disabled, this might not be a viable option. Additionally, zhe are dating and living with someone else right now too, so. It’s not a top priority for me by any means. https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783018318241799
I’m out to my friends both online and in person! It went well with them, but I always get nervous that people will think I don’t like them as much. Some of my previous partners were less ok with Ace or Aro though, which made me a bit sad.
+ https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783019396182016
+ https://twitter.com/iamspiderbro/status/1285783019396182016
I have not told my family, probably won’t for a few years.,
Also told my therapist, and doctors when necessary, never had an issue with them so far.
Also told my therapist, and doctors when necessary, never had an issue with them so far.