Making her feel "good" and "happy" is not the goal. Even if she says it is.

Divorce court is full of women who felt "good" for a long time. "I love you I'm just not in love with you".

She wants all the emotions.

Make her feel attracted, make her miss you...
Make her annoyed with you. Make her laugh at you. Make her brag about you. Make her amazed by you. Make her frustrated with you. But don't spend too much time in any one bucket and make it positive and meaningful and exciting overall.
If she's "happy" for too long she'll call you boring, say that you've "given up", that she loves you but isn't "in love" with you

To her, your consistent contentment can even look like depression

BTW This is why you can't go fishing with a woman. Too calm and peaceful to enjoy
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