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on today’s edition of “chris is bored at work so they’re going on a tangent” i want to talk about two things specifically. firstly, i find it astonishing how fascinated straight people are with sex that isn’t straight.
“are you top or bottom, what positions, how does it work, is it weird, does it hurt, etc” these are all beyond personal and weird to ask people always but especially when you don’t even really know them.
im case they got too jumbled, here’s the notes version
in* i give up
both of these things further propel these perceptions and ideas of our community being this like dirty, overly sexual, sinful, taboo, thing, when it’s literally not that at all. being LGBTQIA+ is all beautiful, natural, organic and valid.
when meeting people in this community remember that first and foremost they’re people who deserve respect and boundaries. also if you’re an ally and want to help or want to learn then we live in the digital age. please do some research!
and if you’re still fixated on the fucking part then help us open the doors to a much needed and overdo sex education system to be placed schools and community centers that include all sex ed, and not just straight sex ed. anyways fun chat!
also someone straight, monumentalizing their anal experience, while somewhat “taboo” is still WIDELY more accepted than being gay. so you get to celebrate something that other people are hated and demonized for.
minority groups get very exhausted of constantly having to educate everyone. there are so many more pressing matter for us then how we fuck, please pick one of those topics to expand on.
it’s a strange fixation on how LGBTQIA+ sex happens and if straight people were constantly bombarded with these questions i know they would also feel extremely uncomfortable so it really doesn’t make sense as to why it happens so much
for people in the community,
for people in the community,
(certainly not all) anal sex is the default. so let me preface this by saying i think everyone should explore their body and sexuality and try new things. however i really don’t care to hear about your scandalous adventurous time with anal sex.
