How do you face a broken heart?
By accepting that sadness, anger, confusion, and grief are all a part of the journey to happiness and that even happiness is fleeting.
if it’s stability & healing you’re seeking you start by learning to accept what is & what will pass; the broken heart will not ache one day, maybe sting from time to time but it will be accompanied by the current moment you’re in, which is in the present & future (simultaneously)
You encourage yourself to learn how to provide the things you feel are so distant from you like “real love.” Love is a constant force of energy, even when it shifts and it feels like we can’t recognize it because it has our name & not someone else’s attached to it.
You share your love with others and yourself, your friends and the person who has shown you how much one can love— YOU. What did you stop doing? What do you want to learn? A hobby? And instrument? A subject? What kind of dates are you going to take yourself on?
How have you changed? How would you like to get back to yourself? How will you respond to yourself when you feel empty? Irrational? Sad? How are you going to become a better lover to yourself?
You’re going to have to commit to getting to know yourself again.
You’re going to have to commit to getting to know yourself again.
You can half-ass it but you’ll keep coming back to a place of emptiness when you rush yourself for the sake of not feeling lonely or when you get your heart broken again.
It doesn’t have to be a heart break, it can become committing to accepting that things must change.
It doesn’t have to be a heart break, it can become committing to accepting that things must change.
This is not to say that it won’t hurt to get hurt, it’s just not sustainable to feel that your whole world is falling apart everytime something doesn’t work romantically.