I mean.. Kalau km mau ngeship/mengidolakan satu kapal/orang saja tuh it's perfectly fine, you do you, but you have to realize kalau jalan yg kamu pilih ini akan dekat dengan superiority, kecenderungan utk mendewakan kapal/idolmu, dan kalau kapal/idolmu end up mengecewakan-(c)

sakitnya akan jauuuh lebih terasa bagimu, and you got nothing else to cope with if the only thing you hold onto for happiness end up dissatisfying you.. You have to really understand about this, that you are idolizing and shipping other humas too, and there's no way they'll-(c)

keep on being flawless for the rest of their life.

Deep sadness and disappointment can lead you to hatred, and that combinations are sure bad for your mental health

the key is manage your own expectations. Remember, your mental health is the #1 priority.