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EVERYONE
And I mean
EVERYONE
Loves an underdog.
I won't waste time telling you why.
Deep down, you already know.
But what I WILL tell you
Is why you need to find your underdog story.
And I mean
EVERYONE
Loves an underdog.
I won't waste time telling you why.
Deep down, you already know.
But what I WILL tell you
Is why you need to find your underdog story.
Listen.
I know you're relatable to others.
Everyone knows you are, in some way.
But they don't know HOW you relate to them.
I learned something really quickly when it came to being social.
And I'm gonna be honest with you,
It's not something you want to hear.
I know you're relatable to others.
Everyone knows you are, in some way.
But they don't know HOW you relate to them.
I learned something really quickly when it came to being social.
And I'm gonna be honest with you,
It's not something you want to hear.
The onus is ALWAYS on YOU to stand out.
Though you should 100% be looking for who clicks with you,
It's ultimately YOUR job to impress others the first time you meet them.
Interaction's a two way street that you must continually cross.
Though you should 100% be looking for who clicks with you,
It's ultimately YOUR job to impress others the first time you meet them.
Interaction's a two way street that you must continually cross.
To cross the street successfully
You need to understand the vehicles that are ON the street.
How do you relate to them?
Do you understand the speed of their engines?
Do you understand the particular sound of their motors?
Do you understand what type of gas to fill them with?
You need to understand the vehicles that are ON the street.
How do you relate to them?
Do you understand the speed of their engines?
Do you understand the particular sound of their motors?
Do you understand what type of gas to fill them with?
Now think on it, deeply.
ALL of this is what makes for quality conversation and interaction.
The speed of the engine is their overall energy levels.
The sound of their motors is the tone with which they speak to you
The type of gas is the type of language you use around them.
ALL of this is what makes for quality conversation and interaction.
The speed of the engine is their overall energy levels.
The sound of their motors is the tone with which they speak to you
The type of gas is the type of language you use around them.
Understand the vehicle,
And you understand how best to relate to the person.
But we're not done yet.
If ONLY it were that easy...
And you understand how best to relate to the person.
But we're not done yet.
If ONLY it were that easy...
The second step to crossing the street is actually driving on the road
Alongside these cars.
You need to establish room for yourself,
Without causing the other cars to crash.
This is where most people fail.
How do they do this?
I'm so glad you asked...
Alongside these cars.
You need to establish room for yourself,
Without causing the other cars to crash.
This is where most people fail.
How do they do this?
I'm so glad you asked...
Common examples that you may see in real life
(BUT MUST ALWAYS AVOID)
- Underselling your friends to build yourself up
- Teasing someone that you aren't already familiar with
- Talking trash about someone else behind their back
What image does this portray of you?
(BUT MUST ALWAYS AVOID)
- Underselling your friends to build yourself up
- Teasing someone that you aren't already familiar with
- Talking trash about someone else behind their back
What image does this portray of you?
It suggests...
- That you're not an authentic person 100% of the time
- You don't respect the people closest to you
- If they are vulnerable with you, you WILL trash talk them to someone else
These are TERRIBLE impressions to set upon yourself.
- That you're not an authentic person 100% of the time
- You don't respect the people closest to you
- If they are vulnerable with you, you WILL trash talk them to someone else
These are TERRIBLE impressions to set upon yourself.
I don't care how easy it is to start conversations by doing these things.
I know it's easy.
I used to do it when I was 16, because I thought it gave me a personality.
If people laughed at sarcastic jokes,
I would think they liked me.
Don't do it.
The attention is fleeting.
I know it's easy.
I used to do it when I was 16, because I thought it gave me a personality.
If people laughed at sarcastic jokes,
I would think they liked me.
Don't do it.
The attention is fleeting.
MOST IMPORTANTLY
If you don't have anything of value to contribute,
Don't say anything at all.
I'm not saying this for the reason you think I am.
On the contrary, actually.
A lot of people would say this to seem "brooding" and "powerful,"
But MY reasoning is far different.
If you don't have anything of value to contribute,
Don't say anything at all.
I'm not saying this for the reason you think I am.
On the contrary, actually.
A lot of people would say this to seem "brooding" and "powerful,"
But MY reasoning is far different.
People associate you with what you do MOST,
Even if it's not what you do BEST.
So constantly provide value.
Make it so that when you speak, people listen.
This isn't about holding power.
This is about building trust and reliability.
Even if it's not what you do BEST.
So constantly provide value.
Make it so that when you speak, people listen.
This isn't about holding power.
This is about building trust and reliability.
Fellas, ladies,
I hate to tell you,
But your first impression matters.
That's why you should try to be on your game as much as possible, socially.
And I don't mean "pick-up" game.
I mean YOUR game.
YOUR personality.
YOUR charisma.
YOUR values.
I hate to tell you,
But your first impression matters.
That's why you should try to be on your game as much as possible, socially.
And I don't mean "pick-up" game.
I mean YOUR game.
YOUR personality.
YOUR charisma.
YOUR values.
I know what you're thinking by this point.
"But what if I want to break that first impression stigma?"
Oh, I can help you with that.
It's not easy, but it can be done.
But that's tomorrow's subject.
"But what if I want to break that first impression stigma?"
Oh, I can help you with that.
It's not easy, but it can be done.
But that's tomorrow's subject.
For now, please consider retweeting so others:
- can understand the power of presentation
- consider why first impression matters
- avoid common social pitfalls
Thank you all for reading,
See you in tomorrow's thread!
- can understand the power of presentation
- consider why first impression matters
- avoid common social pitfalls
Thank you all for reading,
See you in tomorrow's thread!
