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Two things couples should use more to improve their sexlives?
Mystery & taboo
On mystery:
Most couples overshare and lead lives that are too predictable
There is no mystery between them, only comfort
They don't put in effort to surprise each other
Mystery & taboo
On mystery:
Most couples overshare and lead lives that are too predictable
There is no mystery between them, only comfort
They don't put in effort to surprise each other
Mystery creates curiosity
Without curiosity it becomes harder to create sexual interest/tension
Lack of mystery will eventually cause your relationship to bleed to death
Fortunately, it's not that difficult to create & maintain some mystery
Without curiosity it becomes harder to create sexual interest/tension
Lack of mystery will eventually cause your relationship to bleed to death
Fortunately, it's not that difficult to create & maintain some mystery
Easy things you can do to keep mystery:
- Less contact, no texting
Staying in touch all day about everything you do, is an absolute mystery killer
How can you be curious about each other when you always know exactly what they're doing?
- Less contact, no texting
Staying in touch all day about everything you do, is an absolute mystery killer
How can you be curious about each other when you always know exactly what they're doing?
- Break patterns
If you spend each night watching tv together, something simple as going for a walk together instead can already improve mystery
People get curious when others break patterns for no obvious reason
If you spend each night watching tv together, something simple as going for a walk together instead can already improve mystery
People get curious when others break patterns for no obvious reason
- Small surprises
Surprises do not have to be huge things
You can surprise each other with simple things, like tickets to go see a movie
A small trip or simply some unexpected time together
Creates mystery and interest
Surprises do not have to be huge things
You can surprise each other with simple things, like tickets to go see a movie
A small trip or simply some unexpected time together
Creates mystery and interest
The most important thing about mystery isn't about what you do
It's about how you bring it
Don't go on a 15 minute tirade on why you want to go for a walk instead of watching tv
Just say "You'll see" said with a wink
Take her to a romantic spot where you can see the sunset
It's about how you bring it
Don't go on a 15 minute tirade on why you want to go for a walk instead of watching tv
Just say "You'll see" said with a wink
Take her to a romantic spot where you can see the sunset
Overexplaining & rationalizing are the enemy of mystery
If you need more mystery in your relationship, explain less & rationalize less
Tease her by giving her silly reasons
Or simply tell her something is a surprise or secret
Works much better
If you need more mystery in your relationship, explain less & rationalize less
Tease her by giving her silly reasons
Or simply tell her something is a surprise or secret
Works much better
On Taboo:
Taboo is majorly underused in relationships
Doing something "naughty or forbidden" together will create huge amounts of sexual tension
Taboo makes everything way more exciting than it would otherwise be
Taboo is majorly underused in relationships
Doing something "naughty or forbidden" together will create huge amounts of sexual tension
Taboo makes everything way more exciting than it would otherwise be
Taboos can revolve around either doing something you shouldn't be doing, or doing it somewhere, where you shouldn't be doing it
Great examples of something that's very taboo, is doing sexual acts in public
Or sexual acts that most people would frown upon
Great examples of something that's very taboo, is doing sexual acts in public
Or sexual acts that most people would frown upon
Often it's not really about the taboo act itself
It's about the risk of being caught
It's about knowing you're doing something forbidden
The emotions that are provoked by doing something taboo are often very powerful
Can create huge amounts of sexual tension
It's about the risk of being caught
It's about knowing you're doing something forbidden
The emotions that are provoked by doing something taboo are often very powerful
Can create huge amounts of sexual tension
When used together, mystery and taboo become an extremely powerful cocktail that will spice up your relationship
If you want to find more about both & how to use them
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If you want to find more about both & how to use them
Get yourslef a copy of my book Dating King Sex Magician here: https://gumroad.com/l/datingking
