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How can I tell if another person is faking
#dissociativeidentitydisorder?
A thread of 7 parts: By Lydia
#dissociativeidentitydisorder?
A thread of 7 parts: By Lydia
1. Do they act like other systems? Yes? No?
It doesn't matter. Every system with #dissociativeidentitydisorder presents differently, be it covert or overt. You cannot compare one vs. another.
It doesn't matter. Every system with #dissociativeidentitydisorder presents differently, be it covert or overt. You cannot compare one vs. another.
2. Do they mention trauma, ever? Yes? No?
It doesn't matter. Systems have a right to keep their trauma close to the chest, and do not need to share openly to "prove" anything to anybody. While #dissociativeidentitydisorder may be caused by it, trauma is NEVER your business.
It doesn't matter. Systems have a right to keep their trauma close to the chest, and do not need to share openly to "prove" anything to anybody. While #dissociativeidentitydisorder may be caused by it, trauma is NEVER your business.
3. Do they talk positively about, or are they "sensationalizing" #dissociativeidentitydisorder? Yes? No?
It doesn't matter. Systems have a right to cope with their disorder in a manner that allows them to function. If they can find the joy in their life, why fault them?
It doesn't matter. Systems have a right to cope with their disorder in a manner that allows them to function. If they can find the joy in their life, why fault them?
4. Do they have a lot of fictives or alters that seem "convenient"? Do they make #dissociativeidentitydisorder seem like roleplaying? Yes? No?
It doesn't matter. The formation of alters is based in protection. If their mind found peace from a fictional character, good for them!
It doesn't matter. The formation of alters is based in protection. If their mind found peace from a fictional character, good for them!
5. Do I study #dissociativeidentitydisorder? Yes? No?
It doesn't matter. You have no right nor ability to decide whether or not someone is faking. That lies with a professional, and ONLY professionals that have built a working relationship with the patient.
It doesn't matter. You have no right nor ability to decide whether or not someone is faking. That lies with a professional, and ONLY professionals that have built a working relationship with the patient.
6. In conclusion:
Stop accusing others of malingering #dissociativeidentitydisorder. Their gain is bullying and abuse. There would be no reason to fake it. All it does is damage those who seek support.
No one would ask for a dissociative mind willfully. No one would want it.
Stop accusing others of malingering #dissociativeidentitydisorder. Their gain is bullying and abuse. There would be no reason to fake it. All it does is damage those who seek support.
No one would ask for a dissociative mind willfully. No one would want it.
7. Remember, you are loved and valid. We see you. We appreciate you. We are here for you.
Your trauma forced the mind to create parts to help you cope. That does NOT make you scary or dangerous.
You are deserving of love and support.
#dissociativeidentitydisorder
-Lydia
Your trauma forced the mind to create parts to help you cope. That does NOT make you scary or dangerous.
You are deserving of love and support.
#dissociativeidentitydisorder
-Lydia
