When I was in sec school, I got tired of homework, making my notes, my dad mandating me to read and I kept praying to get into the university so I could get freedom.
When I got into the university, I was disappointed and figured I had more struggle than I had in secondary schoo
When I got into the university, I was disappointed and figured I had more struggle than I had in secondary schoo
The night classes, mid night reading that led to my bad
Sleeping habits today. Waking up early morning to rush to school so you can occupy the front seats. There were so many to fight for.
Then I realized that life's struggle increases as you take each step up the ladder.
MY POINT IS
A lot of women get into marriage in the quest for
Then I realized that life's struggle increases as you take each step up the ladder.
MY POINT IS
A lot of women get into marriage in the quest for
freedom from parents, you want to own a home and decide what you do or not not knowing that accountability is required more in marriage. You're accountable for what you do, where you go, how you spend your money and all.
My girlfriend was telling me yesterday how she don't even
My girlfriend was telling me yesterday how she don't even
know if she can achieve all she planned out now that she is married because she has limits. It's not just about you, its about you and your partner. Imagine if you had plans to study abroad and you marry someone whose plan is to establish himself in Nigeria. What's the chances
that as a woman you will leave your husband behind and travel. Marriage is more demanding, it requires more work and efforts, sacrifices to work out. Don't see it as a bed of roses.
There is no rest, you're gonna have to deal with your partner, raise kids, work hard to secure their future. The difference is you're going to be doing it with someone who loves and understands you by your side (if you're lucky)