normalize getting a place with your significant other but having two separate rooms.
because seriously, imagine sharing your room EVERY night??? then having to coordinate on a room theme???? baby no we are two different people. i’d love to live with my man but we can definitely have separate rooms. that way we have a choice to sleep alone or together.
what if y’all have a disagreement and just need space for a night or 2? the separate rooms comes in handy cuz y’all obviously are gunna figure it out together you just want space. you have the right to want space from your significant other.
crazy thing is, i never used to think that way. if i was feeling you, i wanted to be up under you 24/7. it was very shadowy scorpionic of me. it’s also called codependency
something i had to work these past few months and lemme tell ya. spirit triggered tf outta my ass

but i have actually found solitude within myself therefore, i understand why being by yourself is important. it teaches you a lot about yourself. i value my solitude but i also value my interpersonal relationships. therefore, i want me and my man to have two separate rooms

