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Softbois and Fuckbois: a thread.
there are men who see women as sexual objects/sexual conquests. they don't like pleasure; they like power. they see sex/romance/pleasure as a zero sum game, and they sure as hell don't plan to be the ones losing, therefore, they see sexual partners as the "conquered" party.
because they equate sex to conquest, they believe they have bested or defeated you in some way after being sexual with you. they believe women are worth less after they have put their hands on them. they believe their body count defines their worth.
if you have come across, and fallen victim to this type of man, i have one thing to say to you: consider yourself lucky. because however bad the fuckboi is...he is not as bad as the Softboi.
Softbois don't want to conquer women physically or sexually. They want to conquer them emotionally. they get their kicks from telling women to trust them, rely on them, and generally be emotionally vulnerable to them. that's their kink. softbois secretly believe that
vulnerability equals weakness. but of course, they, like all normal humans, are vulnerable. they can't accept or process this, so they punish others (i.e women) for their vulnerability. their power trip is ten times more harmful and dangerous. they want you to not just WANT them
but to love them, all for the sick pleasure of rejecting you. they don't even get much sex out of it. they just enjoy the feeling of tricking someone into trusting them, or the feeling of being needed by someone.
Softbois have kind eyes and an impressive knowledge of woke vocab.
Softbois have kind eyes and an impressive knowledge of woke vocab.
softbois will tell you how much they hate the patriarchy for emotionally stunting and repressing men. They mean it. But they can't punish the patriarchy. So they punish you, the nearest desirable woman.
so anyway, good luck to my fellow str8/bi girls out there lol
so anyway, good luck to my fellow str8/bi girls out there lol
