This ‘sugar daddy’ trend is so very dangerous. Girls envision an attractive older gentleman taking them shopping and living a glamorous life, which maybe, might, happen 1% of the time.

Realistically, to be a sugar baby is to be a sugar coated escort. There is nothing wrong with that, but these illusions of a man buying you Chanel then leaving you alone is dangerous. You cannot have a ‘sugar daddy’ without giving him ‘sugar’.

So now you have teenagers on sugar daddy sites, meeting men with no idea on how to keep themselves safe, what they’re worth, no guidance. They think £200 a week is ok? For what? Unlimited sex with said man? They don’t even realise that’s less than what most street girls make.

Now if you really do have an ‘arrangement’ with a man, you are more like a girlfriend. That means you need to have sex with, and spend your time and energy on someone you don’t love, or maybe don’t even like. You don’t just get paid, you are in a relationship.

This is why I disagree with the mainstream glamourisation of sex work. Men on these sugar daddy dating sites KNOW they’re full of teenagers with misconceptions, and they are preying on them. If you are a sugar baby, you are a SEX WORKER/ESCORT. They expect sex or sexual services.

Call it what it is. If that’s still what you want, educate yourself, keep safe, and know you worth. If you don’t want to be an escort don’t look for a sugar daddy, if you try meet a ‘sugar daddy’s’ and don’t have sex with them you’re likely to eventually get assaulted.

Not everyone is meant for the sex industry, and not everyone in it is successful either. If you don’t want to do anything for the money you see other girls making then don’t bother. You are endangering yourself.
Please stop the misinformation that is endangering young girls.