Took a Big L Today
How do I respond?
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How do I respond?
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What was my initial response?
Anger, bit of grief
Did I flip a table? No
Not my style, I sat down to collect my thoughts
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Anger, bit of grief
Did I flip a table? No
Not my style, I sat down to collect my thoughts

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Initial thought was I need to make up for this loss!
It’s human nature, no one likes losing
So I had to consider my options



(Cont)
It’s human nature, no one likes losing
So I had to consider my options



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1. Try source & replace the item
2 Take revenge
3. Take it on the chin
4. Wallow in self pity
All viable options at the time
I yo-yo’d from 2,4 to 3 & settled for no 1
But why?


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2 Take revenge
3. Take it on the chin
4. Wallow in self pity
All viable options at the time
I yo-yo’d from 2,4 to 3 & settled for no 1
But why?


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It was easy, what ultimately will make me happy?
Taking revenge woudnt make up for it
Only ruin another persons day.
Wallowing in self sorrow, certainly woudnt make me happy
Take it on the chin, wouldn’t have replaced the metaphorical hole in my heart


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Taking revenge woudnt make up for it
Only ruin another persons day.
Wallowing in self sorrow, certainly woudnt make me happy

Take it on the chin, wouldn’t have replaced the metaphorical hole in my heart



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So I sourced a replacement, only time will tell, whether I’ve truly bounced back
Could even be a win in the long run , who knows?
Important thing is, I reacted pro actively in a positive way & didn’t let it drag me down!



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Could even be a win in the long run , who knows?
Important thing is, I reacted pro actively in a positive way & didn’t let it drag me down!



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So to finish up, your probably wondering what was the L??
What was it, that brought the inspiration for this thread?


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What was it, that brought the inspiration for this thread?


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My Jumper got ruined in today’s wash 





Thanks for reading
Hope my “big L” taught a thing or 2






Thanks for reading
Hope my “big L” taught a thing or 2