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ANAL TIPS THREAD1) use very thin small dildo. Body safe is best, like silicon or glass or even metal. Its more comfortable if you don't like fingers :)
2) use Tons of lubes! Better too much than not enough, as it doesn't self lubricated.
Don't use numbing lube. It's not safe, pain is a great indicator if you are doing something wrong! Some discomfort can happen but it should not be pain.
Don't use numbing lube. It's not safe, pain is a great indicator if you are doing something wrong! Some discomfort can happen but it should not be pain.
3) massage your anus for lubes, and do slow push before entering. Put the tip of the toy in and out slowly, and go deeper and deeper if you feel comfortable. You don't have to go super deep to feel pleasure. 
4) Lay on your side and bend your knees. It's a very comfortable position for anal when are just starting. For bigger toy riding the toys is great as well
5) Use a mirror! This help me a lot. The mirror help me see what I'm doing so I don't go too fast. It's one the tips that help me the most!
6) do external stimulation, using a vibrator or just your hand to give yourself pleasure and help relax during penetration.
7) be relaxed and patient! Put music on! Make sure you have all time just for you. It sometimes takes me 1h to stretch until I can use big toys! Way until you feel no resistance before using a bigger toys.
8)For cleaning, if you went to toilet 30 minutes before and feel empty. Just washing your anus in the shower is enough for just training. Or You can do enema if you prefer, I do enema if I really need to once a week maximum.
