"if you think the lesbian label doesn't include attraction to trans and nonbinary, people you're lesbophobic"

yes, 100%, but why do people only really say this to justify shaming nonbinary people who aren't comfortable dating lesbians who in their own words "only like women"
like... if you tell me "I'm a lesbian, I'm only attracted to women" and you ask me out, I'm going to assume the only reason you asked me out is because you see me as a woman and not a nonbinary person.

and this is coming from someone who is *also* a lesbian.
do y'all get it now?

this is why so many people are turning to the 'bi lesbian' label; it acknowledges both their attraction to women (lesbian) *and* nonbinary people, making them attracted to more than one gender (bi).

most of the bi lesbians I've met don't even like men.
but y'know, even if they did, it wouldn't matter.

what binary lesbians don't & will never understand is that you can't shape your whole identity around loving women and nobody else, and then expect nonbinary people to be okay with being told "oh, that includes you too I guess"
and what do y'all do to lesbians--especially bi/pan lesbians--who recognize their attraction to nonbinary people as equal to their attraction to women?

mock them.
doxx them.
call them slurs.
out them to friends and family.
tell them to kill themselves.

disgusting.
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