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I'm going to keep telling other cis & straight people this.
Stop framing people with different gender expressions as "I don't care what happens in someone's bedroom".
Let me tell you why that's obviously bad if you don't know already.
Stop framing people with different gender expressions as "I don't care what happens in someone's bedroom".
Let me tell you why that's obviously bad if you don't know already.
Channeling an entire spectrum of people with different expressions of gender, sex traits, & sexualities into "the bedroom" ignores that these identities aren't about what you do & don't do sexually. It's not about you. It's not about your whack ass sex life.
Since having sex itself is a choice action, you then start creeping into "lifestyle" talk. When gender expression and sex traits aren't about sexual activities of said person. It's about who they are. That's not a choice.
That's why some of us mentally struggle when you we great identities like "asexual and Trans". You think being Trans has something to do with sexual activity. Because that's all YOU understand.
Get some range.
Get some range.
So in reference to our Black Trans sisters being killed for who they are:
A lot of you think they are being killed because some man felt "tricked" sexually. No.
It was simply for existing, and he had an issue with his own attraction. Whether they had sex or not.
A lot of you think they are being killed because some man felt "tricked" sexually. No.
It was simply for existing, and he had an issue with his own attraction. Whether they had sex or not.
Also there's another topic on how many assume a Trans person even wants to have sex with these raggedy, no duvet having, no spice rack having, BUMS. But I digress.
Start with thinking about everyone as a whole person. Not as someone you need to understand fully so they can live
Start with thinking about everyone as a whole person. Not as someone you need to understand fully so they can live
