the dog-whistle here is the reduction of LGBT+ identity to sex; a misunderstanding of where -phobia comes from & a common trope in -phobic rhetoric framing LGBT+ folk as a sexual threat

cw: LGBT+ phobia
(+bonus false equivalence of natural hazards with prejudicial legislation)
LGBT+ 'phobia is motivated in-part by prevailing masculine norms which devalue & regulate femininity.
Eg. gay men are often viewed as "subordinate masculinites" for defying gender norms & feminine expression; most homophobia is not acted on because of witnessing sex
Femininity is viewed as inferior & inauthentic in contrast to masculine norms; the dominant view of a gender binary is also a hierarchy regulated by anti-feminine prejudice that polices a normative view of femininity. This policing occurs across sex, sexual orientation, & gender
the @WHO report (2017) typifies violence against sexual & gender minorities as being motivated by the desire to punish those defying gender stereotypes, as most commonly acted out by men, & most commonly by men who strongly adhere to masculine norms https://www.who.int/bulletin/volumes/96/1/17-197251/en/
Reidy et al (2014) stated violence is partly motivated when a man believes he is, or is perceived as, insufficiently masculine as determined by social mandates, & seeks to confirm their masculinity by regulating the gender expression of themselves & others https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5868426/
Eg. transmisogyny is motivated by folk viewing trans feminine gender transition as a transgression. This typically manifests as a type of sexual objectification: trans feminine folk are depicted as sexual deviants, fetishists, groomers, deceivers etc.
the consequences are clear: just last year @The_TUC report on LGBT+ sexual harassment revealed that trans women suffer more instances of sexual assault & rape in workplaces than other women
This policing permeates society/ Eg. in 2019 the American Medical Association described the murders of trans women as an “epidemic” of violence; Intersex infants are often subject to unnecessary "normalising" surgeries to conform to expected norms https://www.hrw.org/news/2018/10/12/medical-experts-call-defer-unnecessary-intersex-surgeries
so when "joined June 2020" above advises "don't fuck someone of the the same-sex in public" to avoid violence they're mistaken: LGBT+-phobia is not about sex, it's about axes of control; you don't need to be caught having sex to suffer violence, you just need to be visible
framing the issue of exposing LGBT+ students to unnecessary risk as solely sex-based reduces nuanced identities to a single issue, ignoring that LGBT+ identities are more than what happens in the bedroom, & overlooks prejudices against gender expression
(it's odd having to say that LGBT+ issues are more than just same-sex intercourse. it's literally in the name)
this framing is also problematic because it sails closely to typical strategies used against LGBT+ folk: reducing LGBT+ folk to purely a sex-based issue is the first step in an old trope that frames LGBT+ as sexual deviants, stokes moral panic, hate & fear
deeply sexualised language typifies 1980s homophobia & current transphobia:
- ignore that people have nuanced relationships with others/themselves & reduce being LGBT+ to just sex
- claim perversion, relate to child abuse, & stoke moral panic
- dehumanise us & promote eradication
Eg. 2013 Russia's 2013 law banning the communication of referring to homosexuality was explicitly linked to the protection of children, playing on fears that gay men recruit or groom children, & emboldened homophobic violence under the pretence they're defending children
this view can be tackled by making people recognise LGBT+ folk as complex humans, not the bogeyman created by anti-LGBT+ folk. It's why visibility helps combat this. E.g. the US Equal Marriage campaign worked because it showed gay folk as your neighbour, siblings etc.
a focus on abstinence also discounts the mental costs of (re)closeting: societal norms are set by majority groups - heterosexuality & cisgender is seen as default. This puts LGBT+ folk on the back-foot, nurturing anxiety & self-loathing from the fear of rejection & prejudice
it also asks LGBT+ folk to accept the burden of navigating the threat of being outed: casual conversation with non-LGBT+ folk is enough of a minefield of seemingly innocuous personal questions which demands either transparency (& an invitation of danger) or denying your identity
asking us to deny our identity only entrenches the idea that LGBT+ folk are the "other", that we are abnormal & our acceptance is conditional to rules set by a majority group; it nurtures a loathing for the parts that don't conform to cisheteronormative society
this is still a problem in Europe: @EURightsAgency 's survey detailed, of 140k LGBTI participants, 70k are never or rarely out about the sexuality &/or gender identity. just holding hands is uncomfortable.
(image - %gay men who avoid doing so)

data here: https://fra.europa.eu/en/data-and-maps/2020/lgbti-survey-data-explorer
LGBT+ folk experience enough anxiety & fear over their identity. Asking LGBT+ folk to re-closet (&/or re-traumatise) for a field trip, to conform to cisheteronormative standards, signals that you do not accept or respect us. It's not for us to 'tone it down'
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