Some women have a higher body count because they’re afraid to say no when they’re put in a situation that involves sexual pressure from a man but I don’t think the slut shamers are ready for that conversation yet

I’ve said no before and they got angry

I’ve said no before and they hit me

I’ve said no before and they spread rumors about me

I’ve said no before and they raped me

Stop telling women to “just say no” and start teaching men to respect women

What makes me really sad is that many women will read this and they will relate to this and many men will read it and think it’s nonsense.

I’m not brave enough to speak on my experience, but for those who are, I believe you.

I’m seeing this thread blow up and it’s heartbreaking. Looking at how many people relate, it’s sad. This dialogue needs to continue. There needs to be more conversation about coping mechanisms/hyper sexuality/and fear that follow abuse, instead of victim blaming.