ok dudes - heres some truth: if you want a godly woman - do your part & learn what God calls you to as a man. im super attracted to my boyfriend but do you know when im the most attracted to him? when he prays for me. when he points me back to Jesus. when he speaks truth over me.

here's the thing - you can be sweet as pie, you can be romantic, you can be the funniest, the best listener, have a great body, or the best style but a true woman of God will be most attracted & value a man who SHOWS HER that He loves The Lord & knows His calling as a man of God.

and remember that being a man of God means it is your responsibility (in marriage) to love, protect, and care for your woman. that includes loving, caring for, & protecting her emotions and her walk with God too. you've got a heavy responsibility.

don't you want to date a woman who you already know values her walk with God???

if you're complaining that no "good girls" ever give you a chance also consider that a godly woman will decide to give you a chance based on the fruit she sees in your life. not what you post online.

if you want a godly woman - be a godly man. if you don't know how to be a godly man - open your bible and start reading.

id recommend:

1 timothy 3
1 peter 3
1 corinthians 16:13
ephesians 5-6
titus 1:5-9

i see and hear about way too many christian dudes DMing girls to "get to know them" and then ghosting after a few days. or guys who treat women poorly and then blame the girl and call her dramatic or high-maintenance. y'all need to do better. teach other how to be better.

also stop being worried about being called a simp or being called whipped.

a real man cares more about his woman's feelings than he does about the opinions of his boys. especially boys that treat women like they're disposable.

be better.
set an example.

and call out your boys who are going around breaking hearts left, right & center!!!! call them out. if your christian brother is constantly in every girl's DMs, flirting, hugging, touching, dating around, or worse - CALL HIM OUT. he is hurting people. set the standard.