There are a lot of people who've been accusing every woman who comes forward with a story of "chasing clout".
Just so you know, no one wants to be known as the person who was taken advantage of. It's embarrassing. It makes you feel stupid.

I've also seen a lot of people saying that bad behavior is acceptable because it wasn't rape or sexual assault.

If your bar is set that low, you need to take a long, hard look at yourself. Emotional abuse, especially when it comes from someone you admire, is extremely harmful.

If someone is routinely seeking out partners who are 8-18 years younger than them and fans of theirs, that person is seeking out people they can take advantage of. They are abusing their position of power.

It's not rape, but that does not make it okay.