Maybe I’m having a really flawed thought process right now. But if every person who’s ever displayed toxic behaviors, glaslighting, manipulation etc is an abuser than I’d say majority of us are then.
The narrative that any person who’s displayed these behaviors in a relationship is this insane abuser who can’t improve or grow seems very counterproductive.
The idea that people should cease to exist or their friends should all abandon them for something everyone at large is guilty of just doesn’t make sense.
The last thing I’m going to say about this is I’m in no way trying to invalidate anyone’s feelings at all, I just think the tone of this subject needs to change to be more productive that’s it.