I'm happily married with young children. I went out for a good friend's engagement party, and there was this woman who came in who I couldn't take my eyes off of. I could see that she was interested in me too, and I struck up a conversation. We talked for half the night, and made

And made out with each other for the other half.

I told her I was married (before the making out) and I wanted to see her again, but I needed to talk with my partner before anything else happened. Went home, had a very hard conversation with my wife, in which LOTS of stuff came

But ultimately my wife let me see her again.

Flash forward a year and we are still dating, very in love, she is friends with my wife, and I couldn't be happier. I know it's a pretty different situation, but I'm really happy that I took ownership

- ownership of what I wanted and found that it deepened my love with my wife, and also let me find this new and spectacular love that she supports.