Maybe we should be asking why?

Why are some young transgender people adamant that they are the gender they were not born, yet want to be?

Why? Here is where we find the problem and the solution.

When being marginalized can be explained with an outside force,

"I was born gay, I was born in the wrong body,"

it has a validation effect, an acceptance that it wasn't their fault, and society should accept because we have a diagnosis and a prescription to correct the issue.

What if it was ok to be attracted to the same sex?

47 years on this planet and I have seen some really straight, uptight women that dogged homosexuals before I transitioned and been shocked when the light of day left and doors of privacy shut. Meaning, "Yeah not real convinced

with the idea that anyone is completely straight or completely homosexual - I've seen some wild shit."

What if we understood that sexuality has a wide range, because quite frankly I believe it does.

What is femininity and masculinity had the straight-jackets of society removed

and we understood people also come in ALL different ways! What if males were allowed to embrace their feminine side without being classified as a, "Gay Man," hey how about we accept men come all different ways, gay-straight, feminine, masculine, and all varying varieties.

You see you can argue with me all you want, I love to debate, but I've lived as a lesbian for most of my life and now as a medically transitioned man and I think we are missing something with the transgender phenomenon.

A huge portion of kids that are medically transitioning

are homosexual and a huge portion R masculine straight women and feminine straight men.

Instead of allowing Mermaids to come into schools and brainwash kids with the idea that gender is an idea, how about we as a society say, "Yup, people come all different ways & that's ok.

Some find peace with medical transition, but with medical transition comes health issues they are NOT telling society about, and a lot of the time the cost of medical transition is to a high of a price to pay.

What is a 3-year boy old playing with a barbie is just that

A 3-year-old boy playing with a barbie & that 3-year-old boy playing with a barbie knew that that was just well.....OK

How many of the kids that are medically transitioning would still be transitioning if masculinity and femininity as well as same-sex and opposite-sex attraction

was OK...No need to run and get a prescription of testosterone or screaming validation, "I was born wrong or this way."

Think about that, Ms. Susie Green from Mermaids would have some..SPLANIN TO DO & Lupron & Dr. Crane's of the world would lose the new BILLION dollar industry

that is making our kids sick and shortening their lives and al because we didn't look at Bobbie & say,

"Hey, dude, cool barbie little guy. What would you like for lunch? GRILLED CHEESE IT IS, should I make one for barbie too?"