Seeing stuff about grooming and knowing how prevalent it is in RP communities. People never say their ages so you could have a 22 year old ERPing with a 16 year old and use " It's just characters" as an excuse.
Also people use OC ships as ways of manipulating others in staying.
Also people use OC ships as ways of manipulating others in staying.
People put a lot into their OC's and getting validation in a form of a relationship is still a top societal accomplishment.
But a lot of people are afraid of breaking up OC's and their OC's being single again and finding purpose for those OC's they stay in shitty relationships.
But a lot of people are afraid of breaking up OC's and their OC's being single again and finding purpose for those OC's they stay in shitty relationships.
I been teaching people to "cook for themselves" and not rely on others to feed you.
Also don't give anyone power over you in any form.
OC's aren't real people. They shouldn't have real impact on your real life and if they start too. That's a fucking red flag.
Also don't give anyone power over you in any form.
OC's aren't real people. They shouldn't have real impact on your real life and if they start too. That's a fucking red flag.
If you love your OC's so much do something with them rather then someone's cum bucket. They deserve more then that. And so do you as a player.
It's ok to want to search for new relationships and people to play with. If someone is only making you commit to them also a red flag.
It's ok to want to search for new relationships and people to play with. If someone is only making you commit to them also a red flag.
Also if someone is insulting others to elevate you up. A red flag.
When you're younger this makes you feel special. Because you do RP/ERP better then so and so. So you must be the superior one.
This is grooming.
Also the person is probably talking about your back too.
When you're younger this makes you feel special. Because you do RP/ERP better then so and so. So you must be the superior one.
This is grooming.
Also the person is probably talking about your back too.
Also it always starts out as they go after your adult characters. Then for some reason they are interested in your younger ones and keep pushing for younger ERP. RED FUCKING FLAG.
If they are like hey let's ship our teen characters and RP sex. Because ships :3c
THIS IS A BAD!
If they are like hey let's ship our teen characters and RP sex. Because ships :3c
THIS IS A BAD!
You are being baited into RPing pedophilia and they have emotional leverage against you now because they will just end the ship if they don't get what they want and your time and efforts wasted. Then use it as a token against you "Well you didn't want to do x with this pair"
"Why should I RP any other pairings with you if you don't want to do what I want?"
Using OC's and OC ships as emotional manipulation to get their dick off to kids. Using you a kid to do so. I mean when your a teen ERPing a teen having sex seems fine. Not with an adult tho.
Using OC's and OC ships as emotional manipulation to get their dick off to kids. Using you a kid to do so. I mean when your a teen ERPing a teen having sex seems fine. Not with an adult tho.
Use caution when you are young and doing RP or even as an adult.
People will use your love for your OC's as a means to manipulate and groom you to their specific fetishes and ERP fantasties. Then that's all your good for, an interactive sex toy. You and your OC's deserve more.
People will use your love for your OC's as a means to manipulate and groom you to their specific fetishes and ERP fantasties. Then that's all your good for, an interactive sex toy. You and your OC's deserve more.