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You do not have to try to date everyone you come accross at every stage in your life only to break up with them later. See, God strategically positions people in your life and both of you have an assignment to benefit each other and even those around you.
I had to learn this late and the unpleasant way. I'm only grateful to some of the people in this category for doing their best to sustain the relationship and I'm now seeing why our paths crossed. I thank God for illumination.
Don't waste your relationships in the name of dating. Take your time and enjoy the benefits of your friendship. If it is a wife or husband you're looking for, pray and work for spiritual accuracy. The brutality of life now isn't even conducive for try and error.
Truth is everything God will do requires men,which include answering your prayers and blessing you. So be mindful how you handle your relationships. Better to be great friends and get married later than rush into dating only to breakup later with bitterness and destroy everything
Think about it.Take your ex for example. It's not by chance they came into your life. But you were "blinded by love" Later you broke up in an unpleasant way and now you harbor bitterness and the relationship is destroyed. Meanwhile this person was actually an answer to a prayer.
It's easy to ignore or overlook this because most of the time God's mercy finds us. But sadly, we would have to wait another cycle and it only delays our advancement in life. Be wise! Make a firm decision! Value your relationships! You'll need them every step of life's journey!
Shalom! 
