Your relationship with your family directs how you deal with others. Your childhood doesn’t have to be as dramatic as others to still experience psychological fuckery.

If your parents were absent a lot (no matter how that may manifest; working, emotionally unstable,

Physically gone but were still loving) you are attracted to unavailable love.

If your parents put you in situations that you had no control over (I’m the parent you’re the child, divorce, no boundaries)

You struggle with power plays in relationships

If your parents silenced you (their way or no way, don’t speak unless spoken too, go to your room, my feelings are more important)

You struggle with communicating your emotions.

If your parents were emotionally unavailable (work position that makes them dissociate, mental illness, their parents didn’t show them love or conditional love)

You struggle with vulnerability.

If your parents did their best but it wasn’t THE best and you understood that

You most likely struggle with self-compassion and being passive aggressive.

You ignored your own pain to make your parent comfortable

This may not be true for EVERYONE and it can manifest in many details. This is just the bigger picture of why some people act the way they do. I learned all of this from thousands of astrology readings I’ve given to complete strangers around the world.