Thread by @pettykuromi, rando: rape fantasies and noncon fic is bad, its normalizing rape, youre [...]

rando: rape fantasies and noncon fic is bad, its normalizing rape, youre retraumatizing yourself, if you like this you're deranged and sick

experts:

Small notes: victims/survivors with fantasies is a way to convert feelings of powerless and pain into pleasure and power. unsresolved trauma can convert to fantasies. Its not abnormal https://www.wbur.org/dearsugar/2018/01/13/dark-fantasies-part-1-with-dr-ian-kerner

Dark Fantasies, Part 1 — With Dr. Ian Kerner

Orgies. Sex in public. Incest. These are the things that some of us think about in the dark. Taboo fantasies can be exciting, but they can also be the source of our deepest shame. In this two-part...

https://www.wbur.org/dearsugar/2018/01/13/dark-fantasies-part-1-with-dr-ian-kerner

"while rape fantasies are common, this does not mean that women secretly want to be raped. There is a huge difference between acted out role-play, imagined scenarios, and real-life experiences...."

https://metro.co.uk/2017/11/29/why-do-half-of-women-have-fantasies-about-being-raped-7099630/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201508/why-do-women-have-rape-fantasies?amp

https://www.vice.com/amp/en_au/article/3k5gey/when-rape-survivors-have-rape-antasies

https://books.google.com/books?id=WXsJAAAAQBAJ&printsec=frontcover&source=gbs_ge_summary_r&cad=0#v=onepage&q&f=false

Thanks @Strawberrwe

https://twitter.com/PaleGlimmer/status/1254520489814495232?s=20

https://twitter.com/PaleGlimmer/status/1254520489814495232?s=20

https://twitter.com/skyshaymins/status/1263232870593597441?s=20

https://twitter.com/skyshaymins/status/1263232870593597441?s=20

Thanks @notsafeforworse

"A lot of these are centered around BDSM, and they're mostly centered around how counsellers can and should approach kink in therapy sessions, I hope these are helpful because they're all the free ones I can find — (1/2) https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609516304283

Fifty Shades of Stigma: Exploring the Health Care Experiences of Kink-Oriented Patients

The term kink describes sexual behaviors and identities encompassing bondage, discipline, domination and submission, and sadism and masochism (collect…

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609516304283

this one in particular is in specific reference to littles!!" (2/2) also recommended by @celebisaur https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-018-09580-5

Littles: Affects and Aesthetics in Sexual Age-Play

This article explores the experiences and practices of self-identifying female sexual age-players. Based on interviews and observation of the age players’ blogged content, the article suggests that,...

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-018-09580-5

Talking about calling your partner "Daddy" & the history of it

Great explanation of incest fantasies

https://metro.co.uk/2017/09/01/lets-talk-about-the-last-taboo-incest-6895569/amp/

Talking about incest & underage fantasies

https://medium.com/sexography/is-there-a-double-standard-when-it-comes-to-sexual-fantasies-b4c7798697aa

Posted this one earlier, but it does address a incest & underage fantasy question around 7:30 https://www.wbur.org/dearsugar/2019/07/13/dark-fantasies-part-one

Episodes We Love: Dark Fantasies, Part 1

Orgies. Sex in public. Incest. These are the things that some of us think about in the dark. Taboo fantasies can be exciting, but they can also be the source of our deepest shame. In the first...

https://www.wbur.org/dearsugar/2019/07/13/dark-fantasies-part-one

She also has a youtube channel and has written blogs for psychology today

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecBK6fVVDLE3YA6uS44_Gw

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/experts/melissa-shepard-md

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/

The nature of women's rape fantasies: an analysis of prevalence, frequency, and contents - PubMed

This study evaluated the rape fantasies of female undergraduates (N = 355) using a fantasy checklist that reflected the legal definition of rape and a sexual fantasy log that included systematic...

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/

https://goat.com.au/relationships/what-do-your-taboo-sexual-fantasies-say-about-you/

https://twitter.com/dionysiaca/status/1265287159680061448?s=20

https://twitter.com/dionysiaca/status/1265287159680061448?s=20

Muting notifications for this. If you want me to add anything shoot a dm.

You are not a dirty, disgusting person for having rape fantasies after being assaulted.

You can follow @pettykuromi.

Tip: mention @twtextapp on a Twitter thread with the keyword “unroll” to get a link to it.

Latest Threads Unrolled: