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rando: rape fantasies and noncon fic is bad, its normalizing rape, youre retraumatizing yourself, if you like this you're deranged and sick
experts:
experts:
Small notes: victims/survivors with fantasies is a way to convert feelings of powerless and pain into pleasure and power. unsresolved trauma can convert to fantasies. Its not abnormal https://www.wbur.org/dearsugar/2018/01/13/dark-fantasies-part-1-with-dr-ian-kerner
"while rape fantasies are common, this does not mean that women secretly want to be raped. There is a huge difference between acted out role-play, imagined scenarios, and real-life experiences...."
https://metro.co.uk/2017/11/29/why-do-half-of-women-have-fantasies-about-being-raped-7099630/
https://metro.co.uk/2017/11/29/why-do-half-of-women-have-fantasies-about-being-raped-7099630/
https://books.google.com/books?id=WXsJAAAAQBAJ&printsec=frontcover&source=gbs_ge_summary_r&cad=0#v=onepage&q&f=false
Thanks @Strawberrwe
Thanks @Strawberrwe
Thanks @notsafeforworse
"A lot of these are centered around BDSM, and they're mostly centered around how counsellers can and should approach kink in therapy sessions, I hope these are helpful because they're all the free ones I can find — (1/2) https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609516304283
"A lot of these are centered around BDSM, and they're mostly centered around how counsellers can and should approach kink in therapy sessions, I hope these are helpful because they're all the free ones I can find — (1/2) https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609516304283
this one in particular is in specific reference to littles!!" (2/2) also recommended by @celebisaur https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-018-09580-5
Talking about calling your partner "Daddy" & the history of it
Great explanation of incest fantasies
https://metro.co.uk/2017/09/01/lets-talk-about-the-last-taboo-incest-6895569/amp/
https://metro.co.uk/2017/09/01/lets-talk-about-the-last-taboo-incest-6895569/amp/
Talking about incest & underage fantasies
https://medium.com/sexography/is-there-a-double-standard-when-it-comes-to-sexual-fantasies-b4c7798697aa
https://medium.com/sexography/is-there-a-double-standard-when-it-comes-to-sexual-fantasies-b4c7798697aa
Posted this one earlier, but it does address a incest & underage fantasy question around 7:30 https://www.wbur.org/dearsugar/2019/07/13/dark-fantasies-part-one
She also has a youtube channel and has written blogs for psychology today
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecBK6fVVDLE3YA6uS44_Gw
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/experts/melissa-shepard-md
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecBK6fVVDLE3YA6uS44_Gw
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/experts/melissa-shepard-md
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You are not a dirty, disgusting person for having rape fantasies after being assaulted.
You are not a dirty, disgusting person for having rape fantasies after being assaulted.
