Using the proper language & being mindful of the tone of the delivery is the secret that makes other people better at communicating your exact points. I often notice the exact moment when a conversation is about to go left bc the tone & the words being used is terribleeeeee.

people tell me all the time... "I been saying this for years but when i say it people think im blah blah blah" & it's not the message they're rejecting.. It's your style of communication that isn't registering. check yourself before you assume it's everybody else fault.

people tone be so condescending & aggressive. forceful & fueled with a nasty attitude. who the fuck wanna talk to yo negative ass? lmao it don't matter how many truths you speak... meet people with respect & warmness & you'd be embraced better. also, use the right words.

sometimes I use too many words but one thing... by the end, you have a clear view of my point. some people are waaay too vague while communicating & aren't able to get their points across. using the word Challenge instead of Problem for example also changes the tone. simple math.