Women detect weakness in a man like it's a 6th sense.

If you:

-show neediness
-compromise your values
-get butt-hurt
-lose your cool
-don't stick up for her when you should
-become dependent on her
-fail to take the lead

She will have no choice but to test your masculine core.

The reason:

A woman's natural state is in her feminine, which is enjoyable, playful, and carefree.

She cannot be in her feminine of she doesn't feel safe and comfortable, which is what the masculine provides.

If you do not provide that security for her, she will have to provide it for herself by stepping into her masculine.

When this happens, she is not happy, because she has to step out of her natural state.

This is when the tests come.

All she's trying to do is to get you back in your masculine, so she can continue being feminine.

If you fail enough times, she won't be able to trust your masculine core and will look for that security elsewhere.

Stay on top of your shit, gentlemen.

Become better, so that it's easier for you to provide that for her.

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